First off, don't let the roll throw you.
(No Pun Intended.) The Lean is REALLY not THAT Detrimental to the Handling. Look at Omni running in H-Stock Auto-X. Did you see his "Hill Climb Video"??
http://www.omnilith.net/videos/LarisonInCar2.mpg
Second, remember that swaybars are a "Fine Tuning", not a "Primary Adjustment".
If you do ALL of your "Roll Reduction" w/ Bars, you've just Eliminated the benefits of an Independent Suspension.
The alternative is to go w/ slightly stiffer Springs and Dampers, w/ only Milder bar/bars.
MY Recommendation would be the Apex kit w/ a Progress rear bar.
A bit stiffer springs, but not too much, slightly stiffer dampers, with an appropriate length for the springs, a NICE price for the kit, plus a bar in the Rear that will aid slightly w/ rotation and lean w/o overdoing it.
Tony D at New Edge Performance sells all of the above, and I Highly recommend his Service.
All together, this package will be a night and day difference for a very reasonable price.