well as far as the car not idleing when was the last time you changed the air filter and cleaned the fule injectors? also if the iac is stuck shut it could cause that as well.
did you wait untill 60k to do the first fluid change on the trans or were there other intervals that you did it at? if you did wait and you only changed the fluid in the pan then there is still a lot of old fluid still there. new a/t fluid is bright red. if you havent done it yet I would have the trans completly flushed. of course the dammage may have all ready been done. the bands and the clutch packs might be toast. did you see the fluid before it was changed?
good luck.
did you wait untill 60k to do the first fluid change on the trans or were there other intervals that you did it at? if you did wait and you only changed the fluid in the pan then there is still a lot of old fluid still there. new a/t fluid is bright red. if you havent done it yet I would have the trans completly flushed. of course the dammage may have all ready been done. the bands and the clutch packs might be toast. did you see the fluid before it was changed?
good luck.