There's no shame in being responsible. Sometimes we don't think of the what-ifs. Not a lot of people plan on the future in this country, I'm no different aside from the fact that I HAVE done both, a BK and a repo, I know what it's like and though my credit is back in the 700 range, I'm more frightened than ever of credit and what it can do to you.
Let me explain it....Forget the minor things like court and the laywers. You'll be forcded to lay your entire financial life on the line, they'll look at everything, how much you make, how much you actually own, everything, and it's going to be their's for the taking. Got a new car stereo? They can takeit if they want to. If you make enough to pay some of these bills, expect a third or more to go to creditors... Then, right after your discharge, you'll be flooded with loan offers, all rediculous interest ( I still get these and it's been 8 years now ) and yes, you will be able to buy a car right after. How? You can't file for a BK for the next 8 years after the new laws, meaning you are THEIRS. You're less of a credit risk than someone with even good credit because you can't get out of it.
BY maintaining your credit, you have the advantage of choosing. It may take time, but do your best to maintain and it'll pay off in the end.
Hold a garage sale, let go of any expensive toys you don't need, whetever it takes, pay the debt down as fast as yo can to either get out of it by selling it or paying it off.
Then, like me, you'll get prime rate mortgages, credit card rates and car loans that you can manage and will allow you to actually live yourl ife and plan for your future.
I'm an example of someone who did it and lived, but I'd NEVER suggest anyone do it unless there was simply no other way. I'd go to family for help first, it's never easy to do, but it's better to swallow your pride than it is to take it up the tailpipe for years and years....